"Whenever a women causes annoyance and and torture to her husband in this world, his mate from among the Houris of Paradise says to her: May Allah ruin thee, do not cause your husband annoyance, for, he is only your guest, and will soon leave thee to join us in Paradise."[Reported by Tirmidhi]
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22-Jun-2004 03:30 PM
Think not of those who were slain in the path of Allah as dead, Nay, they live finding their sustenance in the the presence of their Lord, they rejoice in the bounty provided by Allah; and regard to those left behind, who have not yet joined them (in their bliss), they rejoice
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22-Jun-2004 09:16 PM
what about us women. what do we get when our husband annoys us?
May you have the mind of Hawaa
purity of Maryam
faith of Asiya
love of khadija
affection and knowledge of Aishah
and the favour of being neighbours with them in jannah Ameen
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22-Jun-2004 11:34 PM
Originally Posted by Stranger
lol@stranger
ModLast edited by SuBMiSSioN; 23-Jun-2004 at 12:30 AM.
It is not the critic who counts,
not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds culd have done them better.
The credit belongs 2the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust &sweat&blood,
who strives valiantly,who errs &comes up short again &again because there is no effort without error &short-comings,who knows the great devotion,who spends himself in a worthy cause.
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22-Jun-2004 11:35 PM
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allah yahdeeena ajma3eeeeeeen
Last edited by MUJAHIRAH_FILLAH_jilbabi; 22-Jun-2004 at 11:57 PM.
It is not the critic who counts,
not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds culd have done them better.
The credit belongs 2the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust &sweat&blood,
who strives valiantly,who errs &comes up short again &again because there is no effort without error &short-comings,who knows the great devotion,who spends himself in a worthy cause.
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22-Jun-2004 11:45 PM
See these kind of posts belong in the Brothers section
so the sisters do not get jelous of the hoor.
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22-Jun-2004 11:47 PM
maybe if there was a brothers section then this thread would be in there
Abu Mahmoud
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23-Jun-2004 01:06 AM
http://www.aussiemuslims.com/forums/...ead.php?t=1051
Lovers Of The Hur Al-'Ayn
Mujahid said, that Yazid Bin Shajara was amongst those whose deeds would testify his sayings. He stated the following during a Khutba (speech), "When the skies are opened and when the rows of unbelievers and believers are facing each other, the doors of Heaven and Hell are opened and the Hur Al-'Ain (woman of Jannah) who have big beautiful eyes and are well dressed, peer from the sky. When a Muslim moves forward they say, 'O Allah, help him'. And when he turns his back towards the enemy the Hur Al-'Ain cover their veil from him and say, 'O Allah, forgive him.' O people make an effort for this, may my parents be sacrificed for you, do not disgrace the Hur of Jannah. When a person is Shaheed, as the first drop of blood falls on the ground his sins fall down like the withering of leaves from trees and the Hur Al-Ain come down towards him and clean the soil from his face. He will then be presented with a gift of a hundred pairs of clothes, which will not be human made, but will be the creation of Jannah". He stated further that, "I have been informed that the keys to Paradise are swords". Ibne Mubarak, (p72). At Targheeb Wat Tarheeb, (p444, vol.2).
The Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said: “Whoever controls his anger at the time when he has the means to act upon it, Allaah will call him before all of mankind on the Day of Resurrection, and will let him choose of the Hoor al-‘Ayn whoever he wants.” (Reported by Aboo Daawood, 4777, and others. It is classified as hasan in Saheeh al-Jaami‘, 6518).
Al-Hoor Al-'Eeyn
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"So [it will be] and We shall marry them to Houris with wide lovely eyes." [44:54]
al-Hoor is the plural of Hooraa', which is a woman, the white parts of her eyes intensely white, and the black is intensely black. al-'Eeyn is the plural for 'Aynaa, which is the woman whose eyes are wide.
The Qur'aan describes al-Hoor al-'Eeyn as being firm and full-breasted:
"Verily, for al-Muttaqoon, there will be a success; gardens and grapeyards and young full-breasted [mature] maidens of equal age." [78:31-33]
Al-Hoor al-'Eeyn are creatures that Allaah (swt) has made especially for Paradise, and has made them virgins:
"Verily, We have created [their companions] of special creation, and made them virgin-pure [and undefiled], beloved [by nature], equal in age." [56:35-37]
The fact that they are virgins means that no-one has ever married them before:
"...whom no man or jinn has touched before them." [55:56]
The Qur'an also speaks of the beauty of the women of al-Jannah:
"And [there will be] Houris with wide lovely eyes [as wives for the pious], Like unto preserved pearls." [56:22-23]
Maknoon ["preserved"] means hidden or protected, something whose colour is not changed by exposure to sunlight or by being tampered with. Elsewhere, Allaah likens them to rubies and coral, two beautiful precious stones:
"In them will be [maidens] restraining their glances, whom no man or jinn has touched before them, Then which of the favours of your Rabb will you deny? Like unto rubies and coral." [55:56-58]
al-Hoor are also described as restraining their gaze upon their husbands i.e. they restrict their gaze and don't let their eyes wander to others. Allaah (swt) has stated that they are very beautiful, and it is sufficient to know that Allaah (swt) said:
"In them will be fair [companions] good and beautiful; then which of the favours of your Rabb will you deny? Companions restrained [as to their glances] in [goodly] pavilions" [55:70-72]
The women are not like the women of this world. They are free of al-Hayd [menstruation], an-Nifaas [post-natal bleeding], spittle, mucus, urine and stools. This is what is referred to in the aayah:
"..And they shall have therein Azwaajun Mutahharatun [purified mates]" [2:25]
The Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) told us about the beauty of the wives of the People of Paradise. Al-Bukhaari and Muslim reported from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said, "...the marrow of whose leg-bones will be visible through the flesh because of their extreme beauty." [as-Saheeh, Kitaab al-Khalq, Baab Maa Jaa'a fi Sifaat al-Jannah, Fath al-Baari, 6/318 and Muslim in Kitaab al-Jannah wa Sifaat Na'eem ahlilhaa, Baab awwal zumrah tadkhul al-Jannah, 4/2178, no. 2834]
Look at this beauty that the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) described! Can you find any comparison to it in the world that you know?!:
"If one of the women of Paradise were to look at the people of this world, everything in between them would be lit up and filled with her fragrance. The veil on her head is better than this world and everything in it." [al-Bukhaari, in as-Saheeh, Kitaab al-Jihaad, Baab wa Zawwajnahum bi Hoor-'Eeyn. Fath al-Baari, 6/15]
The smallest number of wives that any one man will have in Paradise is seventy-two. It was reported that the Shaheed will have seventy two wives from amongst al-Hoor a--'Eeyn [Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, 3/357, no. 3834, at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah from al-Miqdaam ibn Ma'd Yakrib]
The Jealousy of al-Hoor al-Eeyn over their Husbands in this World
The Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) told us that al-Hoor feel jealous over their husbands in this world, if the wife of one of them upsets him. Ahmad and at-Tirmidhi report with a saheeh isnaad from Mu'aadh that the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said,
"No woman in this world upsets her husband but his wife from among al-Hoor al-'Eeyn will say, "Do not upset him, may Allaah kill you! For he is with you only temporarily, and soon he will leave you and come to us.'" [Saheeh al-Jaami' as-Sagheer, 6/125, no. 7069]
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23-Jun-2004 04:41 PM
lol i was asking a serious question!

Ameen...May Allah grant us patience to have jannatul firdous!May you have the mind of Hawaa
purity of Maryam
faith of Asiya
love of khadija
affection and knowledge of Aishah
and the favour of being neighbours with them in jannah Ameen
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23-Jun-2004 08:37 PM
Ameen Ya Rubal 3lameen
"EVERY SOUL SHALL HAVE A TASTE OF DEATH." [29:57]
Think Death. Think Grave. Think End. Then, Think Life. Face It, You're Going To Die. And You Sooo Know You Aren't Ready. Nobody Is.
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23-Jun-2004 11:01 PM
Assalaamu 'alaikum,
I was wondering, if one's husband in the dunya goes to the Hour al-'Eyen in jannah, what about the concept that women in jannah will be with their husbands? I have heard this many times but was wondering if any one could verify it for me. And if it is correct, then how do we reconcile it with the role the Hour al-'Eyen play?
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23-Jun-2004 11:08 PM
The women of this Dunya will be 70 times more beautiful then the Hoor el-Eeyn. Is that comforting enough? Or do you want 72 husbands?
www.islamtoday.net/english you would have to ask the Shaikh
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23-Jun-2004 11:11 PM
Assalamu alaikum
72 husbands? One is more than enough thanks! But honestly, I want nothing but the best for my husband in this life and the next insha'Allah.
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23-Jun-2004 11:20 PM
Assalamu 3alaykum
I found this fatwa on islam-qa.com. I would've pasted it up here but it's pretty long..it's not exactly what anisah was asking, but it sort of covers the topic a little. I'll see if I can find another fatwa insha'Allah
http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=en...QR=25843&dgn=4
wa assalamu 3alaykumWhat is for you will not pass you and what passes you is not for you!
لا تضيع الامانة
Do not lose the trust..
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23-Jun-2004 11:20 PM
Masha'Allah, this is a lovely attitude to have, sis.I want nothing but the best for my husband in this life and the next insha'Allah.
I don't think it's constructive when women stress about the Hour al-'Eyen. Insha'Allah, in jannah, people will get everything they desire. It will be unimaginable happiness, so there won't be room for such petty things of this dunya like jealousy and insecurity. At least, this is how I understand it.
I did read about women being reunited with their husbands in jannah, so I was curious about the Hour al-'Eyen and the notion that women's husbands are only with them temporarily. Allahu 'alam. I learn a lot of new things here...
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23-Jun-2004 11:23 PM
Jazakallahu khair for the fatwa, sis Submission.
Alhamdulillah, this has cleared up my confusion.
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23-Jun-2004 11:27 PM
wa iyyakum insha'Allah
I remember reading a bit more on the topic, but I can't remember where now! I somtimes keep note of these things, but at other times I forget!What is for you will not pass you and what passes you is not for you!
لا تضيع الامانة
Do not lose the trust..




