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    hmm I wouldn't say mo...ok yea most.
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    Correction...some men are bad/sinful, just like some women are. Let's not over-generalise.
    ‎"Keep yourself busy in remembering your faults, so that you have no time to remember the faults of others. Be sad for the time you spent in other than the pursuit of your Hereafter. Cry frequently for the wrongs you have committed and perhaps you will then be saved from them..." Sufyan ath-Thawri
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    The thing is, if we're going to consider how most people are not going to heaven and the nature of humanity in general, most men and women become bad by default.

    أحب الصالحين ولست منهم وأرجو أن أنال بهم شفاعة
    وأكره من تجارته المعاصي وإن كنا سواء في البضاعة

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    Quote Originally Posted by from water View Post
    The thing is, if we're going to consider how most people are not going to heaven and the nature of humanity in general, most men and women become bad by default.
    Makes you appreciate what a blessing it is to have submitted to Allah SWT when most of the people haven't.

    Alhamdulillah 'ala ni'matal Islam.
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    Quote Originally Posted by from water View Post
    The thing is, if we're going to consider how most people are not going to heaven and the nature of humanity in general, most men and women become bad by default.
    You just reminded me of the hadith where the prophet says that women will be making up most of the hell fire because of our attitude/being ungrateful. May Allah guide us and especially we females.
    Religion is all about moral character; therefore, whoever beats you in character beats you in religion."

    O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a faded shadow is sheer stupidity!


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    Yeah telling your husband you've never seen any good from him is one of those sins that mean fire, so just don't do it and you should be okay from this door insha Allah. I suppose this is easier said than done since if a woman is going to say that then clearly she must be angry and would then need to hold back.

    Al hamdulilah I don't know that any women in my family have said this to their husbands. If I had a wife and she was about to say that I'd try to immediately end whatever the argument was even with a swift compromise. I know how sharp women are when they get mad so I probably wouldn't even care that much if she said it, but the problem is I don't think the gravity of this sin is dependent upon whether or not the receiving end cares.
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